Lifesavers for Marriage
Just a quick note to share two resources that have blessed and maybe even saved my marriage.
The first is the 30 Day Husband Encouragement Challenge found on this page:
http://www.reviveourhearts.com/challenge/
The second is the Praying for Your Husband Challenge found here:
http://www.reviveourhearts.com/pdf/uploads/31DaysofPrayingforYourHusband.pdf
These resources help me to focus on what I can change in the relationship.
The first helps me to have a positive attitude toward Jeff. I have such a tendency to be negative and critical, so I try to keep this quick reminder before me daily.
The second helps me focus on God and to trust Him with my marriage relationship. I have a tendency to look to Jeff to meet my needs, especially for comfort, which only God can meet. When I look to Jeff to meet needs, it always causes stress in our relationship.
It is also a way that I can truly help Jeff.
Try it yourself and stick with it. You will notice a positive change.